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Relationships are often happy at the beginning, but over time they can become negative without you realizing . Letting go and moving on from a failing relationship will make us happier and healthier, and may be the best thing to do, but how does one know when it’s time to let go?
Someone keep breaks your trust
The reason that trust its number one - because trust is the most important in each and every kind of relationship. Trust is harder for some people than others, often due to their past experiences.
If you cannot trust in anything, life becomes intolerable - You can’t have relationships without trust,
Trust is that thing which is broken on time is broken forever. Sometimes we think that trust can be picked up again but it is not true. When we lose trust from anyone we cannot gain it again that easily. Trust should be maintained by each side of a relationship.
if you succeed in cheating someone, don't think that the person is a fool. Realize that the person trusted you much more than you deserved.
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Are you with someone who’s constantly trying to change you? Who keeps nagging you about every single thing that represents the person you are and contradicts with your individuality? No one has the power to change you, and you don’t have the power to change anyone either.
If your partner doesn’t like more important things like the way you dress or your career etc., it is time for you to leave. Being unable to accept one another for who you are is one of the biggest indicators that the relationship won’t work out.
Don’t change who you are for anyone else. It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you are, than to keep them by being someone you’re not, Unless you want to change on your own without any outside pressure.If you’re with someone who treats you badly and you’re just waiting on them to be a better person and to change for you, don’t waste your time or your emotions. A person who is naturally bad won’t magically change because of your pain,Change comes from within, change definitively does NOT come from love and love shouldn’t change you from the person you are to a person you don’t want to be. Be with someone who cherishes you for who you are and not someone who isn’t happy with the person you are.
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Don't compare your present to your past
Re-playing old relationships is harmful because it hurts your growth with your current partner.
The past is no longer “real,” but our memories and experiences from our last relationship can come back to haunt us.
if you're hearing every detail and story about the former relationship, it’s probably a sign that your partner hasn’t moved on,and you’re not with the right person.
Your ex is your ex because you two couldn’t make it work,let the past be the past.
If your partner loves you for who you are then you should be able to offer the same to your partner. Ask yourself this; if there are things your partner does that you hate or cannot come to terms with, why are you with them?.
While we should learn from our exes to enhance our new relationships, we should not compare one to another,
Eventually you will overcome the heartache, and forget the reasons you cried, and who caused the pain.
you will realize that the secret to happiness and freedom is not about control or revenge, but in letting things unfold naturally, and learning from your experiences over the course of time.
but if your current relationship is actually making you think about that person, then it's time to find someone who can bring you out of your past, completely.So let go of the past, set yourself free, and open your mind to the possibility of new relationships and priceless experiences.
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Your partner doesn’t put any effort in the relationship
You know what can kill a relationship? you're not putting enough effort into a relationship,
No matter how much is going on in life.
one reason why relationship ends because one is doing everything to save it, and the
other is finding every way to end it.
if Someone want to be a part of your life, They'll make an effort to in it. so don't bother
reserving a space in your heart for someone who doesn't make an effort to stay.
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Keep making the same mistakes over and over
First we didn't want to make mistakes and most of the time, we’re fine with that. Many couples make the same mistakes over and over again, and do not understand why they fail. The first two or three times, you might not worry, but the fourth or fifth time has you questioning your intelligence, it's not a mistake, it's a choice.
Different relationships end for different reasons, but if you can figure out the reasons your relationship failed, you’ll be less likely to travel the same road again. we cannot solve our problems with the same thinking when we created them. Do you keep choosing the wrong type of partner? Do you sabotage your relationship by hiding your true thoughts and feelings? Are you afraid of commitment or intimacy? Try to be specific about why your last relationship ended. If you can’t learn from your mistakes, then this just isn’t for you.
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Suffocating Your Partner Can Kill Your Relationship
There’s no such thing as loving someone too much,Too much of a good thing is not a good thing, but being in a controlling relationship is just awful.
So what does it mean to really love someone, and when does love turn into smothering?
Smothering is selfish love. When you smother, you’re really not considering the other person’s feelings and desires. You may feel like you’re showing love, but if you’re being motivated by your own insecurity about the relationship or your own fears about losing this person, And smothering can definitely scare someone away.
When your partner say they need more space, or that they are feeling suffocated, or smothered in a relationship what they are really saying is, “I feel you are requiring too much of me.” In other words, he/she feels that your actions are asking him/her to do something that she isn’t ready to do.
To make it worse, it is often this need to smother and suffocate your partner that drives them away in a first place. You could be having a very loving and affectionate relationship. However, the day you decide you need to ‘hold on’ to your partner is the day that your romantic paradise will come crashing down. I guarantee it.
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Healthy relationships are based off of EQUALITY. Each person must balance their role in order to keep the relationship healthy. Abusive relationships are patterns of controlling behaviors that someone uses against their partner.
An abuser is like a dog that has tasted blood. He’ll always want more. If he keeps getting away with hurting you, he’ll never stop. Trust me, that slap will not be the last one.
Here are some types of abuse
If you’re already in an abusive relationship,keep in mind that you deserve to be happy and to live free of fear and the only way you can do this is put an end to it TODAY… Before it is too late…
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